Returning home after living abroad can be tough. It wasn’t easy for me either, to be honest. If you are in a similar situation, I’d love to help you with my top 5 tips for life after ESL. Continue reading to learn more about what to do once you decide you want to go back home after teaching abroad!
Returning Home After Living Abroad
Do people that read this blog know that I’m leaving Korea in March 2016 for a triumphant return to my motherland, Canada? I haven’t really talked about returning home after living abroad that much on here, I guess.
Staying in Korea for 10 more years because I like 5 months vacation = not a solid plan
Anyway, these days, I’ve been thinking a lot about what it takes to be successful in the transition back home after living abroad for a decade. It’s not that I hate Korea, I don’t. But I don’t love it either, and sticking in a place for 10 more years just because I work 3 or 4 days a week and get 5 months of vacation is not a good way to live.
Conversation Classes: I hope we never meet again
It’s onward and upwards to bigger and better things for me that do not involve teaching any more “conversation” classes, ever again, for the rest of my life. Never, ever again. I’ve reached my maximum capacity for them.
Nervous Energy = I think I’ll write a book about it
In an effort to make my own return home after living abroad as awesome as possible, I decided to write a book about people who went back home after teaching English abroad and made it work, hoping to squeeze the maximum amount of wisdom from them as possible. I surveyed 55 of them, and the book “Life After ESL: Foreign Teachers Going Home” should be coming out in early September 2016. But, in the meantime, here are a few tips to make your return home as awesome as possible.
Top 5 Tips for Returning Home After Living Abroad
Check out my tips for preparing your life after teaching abroad and returning home. You will need it!
Get a Plan for Returning home
Those who return home with a fuzzy sort of plan that involves living on friends’ couches or in parents’ basements just don’t do well. It’s too easy to coast along indefinitely without a job that way, and the longer you’re unemployed, the harder it is to get employed.
Serious Job Skills: Get Some
The people that do best are the ones who have some sort of well-defined job field they can go into. Or, they need to be willing to go back to school to get that, in a lot of cases. That is my plan: to get the minimum education necessary so that I can take all the certified financial planner (and other similar things) licensing exams.
Many ESL teachers abroad make serious mistakes when they think that they can do the same job back home. You can, but you’re competing against people with serious qualifications and experience for $15 per hour part-time jobs. Do you really want that for your life?
More tips here: Jobs for Former ESL Teachers.
A Money Pool: Have One
Having $30,000 or $50,000 goes a long way towards giving you a bit of breathing room so that 2 or 3 months of unemployment during your job search won’t force you back overseas.
A wee bit clueless about the money? This is the book you’ll need: The Wealthy English Teacher: Teach, Travel, and Secure Your Financial Future
Motivation: You Need Lots
Some people seem to head back home just because they don’t really like Korea or whatever country they’re living in. The people that do best are the ones who are going back to their home country because they really want to and not because they have nothing better going on. If you are returning home after living abroad, you need lots of motivation.
Support: The More the Better
Those with a good network of family and old friends back home seem to do much better than those without that, for obvious reasons. Having this network makes it a lot harder to leave again as well after returning home after teaching abroad.
Bonus: Reverse Culture Shock
An extra bonus tip for you! So many people in the survey mentioned experiencing reverse culture shock. It is real, and it will likely happen to you. Be prepared for it!
Where Can I Find Life After ESL?
If you’re thinking about a move back to your home country after doing the TEFL abroad thing, then the book you’re going to need is this one:
You can get the book in digital, print, and audiobook formats. Yes, it really is that easy to start preparing for the transition back to your home country and to get some serious advice about which jobs you might want to consider.
Check it out for yourself over on Amazon:
What about the Audiobook for Going Home After Living Abroad?
Or, you can listen to the book for free on Audible.com. Yes, free. You can get your first book for free when you sign up, so why not make it this one, right? Find it here:
FAQ About Returning Home After Living Abroad
Check out the frequently asked questions about returning home after teaching abroad. Hope the answers are helpful!
How do I move back home after living abroad?
First off, you need a plan. You want to define the job field you would like to go into. Be prepared with cash, so it is okay to be unemployed for 2-3 months. Seek support from family or friends, and be prepared for the reverse culture shock!
Why should you not leave?
Unless you have a clear idea and a well-organized plan, moving back can be hard. You shouldn’t be returning because you don’t like where you are now. The true motivation should be you are going back because you want to be in your homecountry.
What is reverse culture shock?
Reverse culture shock is a common reaction to returning home after living abroad. It is a stage of re-adjustment, similar to what you experienced when you first landed in a foreign country. You will need time to get used to the culture and environment; regain emotional and psychological stability. How long does it last? It really depends on who you are. It can take a week, or it can take a few months. But you will recover eventually.
Returning Home After Teaching ESL Abroad: Join the Conversation
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